“Hoes”: Who is to Blame?

By: @NahREWINDatShi_

There seems to be a negative stigma concerning increased promiscuity among females. Most of us have come to call this select group of females, hoes. Now in dealing with “hoes”, most wouldn’t hesitate to criticize, frown upon and denounce their “loose” ways. We as people tend to “call it how we see it” and with that being said…It is…what it is.

But who do we blame? Who exactly do we owe this “dilemma” to? I speak of simple cause-and-effect. What is the actual cause of the commonly associated “hoe”? Readers…some of you might get mad. Well we can go ahead and probably blame men. Someone has to be honest…besides…women will love me after this one.

On a serious note, in our adolescent years it is known that not only do females mature tend physically faster than males, but somewhat emotionally. Even before their male counterparts, girls are already going through deeper interpersonal connections. It’s partly this reason that it seems as though women are a lot more ready for a relationship while men aren’t. What’s my point? We don’t love them hoes.

Scenario: Basically when a female has invested her emotions in a relationship she’s already given a part of “herself”. Her partner is more stoic in his nature and sees the relationship only for its benefits and not the sentimental and intrinsic values. Eventually, the relationship deteriorates and the female’s feelings have been tossed aside and her “giving” is taken for granted. Her “love” is betrayed…aka she’s been “f*cked over”. It’s at this point where a female will turn into our loosely termed “hoe”. Some women will take on a more Machiavellian attitude, doing what they need to do by any means necessary, completely forgetting the emotional, binding and most importantly the exclusive aspect of a partnership. Other women after that first disregard of their emotional needs will be all too hasty in trying to find new love, refusing to use logic and rational thought in courting a new partner. Yes, I just said courting.

In laymen’s turns…hoes have us men to blame for their “demeaning” ways. Are hoes bad? That’s completely irrelevant to my point. I expect my p*ssy count to quintuple after this article.

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