Why do men do this? Why women dress like that?

By @TheInfoSoup I find it so disrespectful for men to violate women in such a way. I never understood what sort of satisfaction men gain from violating women. What kind of joy comes from looking up a girl skirt? Beside a quick boner, I don't see the point. To some, it might be the power they feel that they have over women they violate. I just can't understand this. Also, I don't understand why women wear such things. Why dress in a manner that will attract lust and negativity? Some females will claim they feel cute but they determine that by whether men check them out or not. Why make yourself an easy target by dressing like you're easy? This can be interpreted as ignorance, but some females cause themselves to be raped. What happened to classy women who dress conservatively, exposing very little skin when they go out? What happened to "Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets" perspective? It seems like this idea is being reversed. What happened to respectable men?  What happened to respecting every female as if they were your mom? 
This world is slowly coming to an end is all I can say.  Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

 

BLACK PEOPLE: Internet dating is NOT BAD !!!

By @TheInfoSoup

Today, Internet dating is not nonly common but a growing trend. Many individuals are looking for that special someone. Some are just looking online for that special someone. Despite the fact how popular it is in the US, blacks dislike or deny it. 

Why? 

I personally think it is due to the fact black folks are proud people. Relying on a website for a mate seems pathetic to blacks. It is considered lame because it shows that the person is incapable of getting with someone "in real life", as if the people typing on the site are robots (in my most sarcastic voice). Even for sites like Twitter, black females usually use lines like,"he tried to holla" or something similar as a  diss for males. eHarmony jokes are used by individuals drowning in their singleness numerous times,  just like Everest jokes are being thrown by individuals with no education at all. 

 The black people or minorities who have met partners online are often in denial. Some laugh when they admit that they met their partners online. Some black individuals do use it to make another identity or to get laid.

At any rate, online dating has been successful for many, that is why it keeps rising. That is why so many commercials about dating sites exist and so on. Not everyones soul mate is in their vicinity or can be reached in the real world first. My second longest relationship was with someone I met off Myspace. It works, despite that you hate it; whether you're Black, Hispanic or White. Not everyone goes hunting at bars, clubs, movies, malls etc. Some just do online hunting. 

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

LOVE -vs- RESPECT "Men Idea of Love"

By @TheInfoSoup
(Old article from my previous blog)

Lately I've been hearing "love doesn't exist" "ni**as ain't sh*t" and so on. I can't help but hit some of you who've been hurt with the simple truth. LOVE does not have the same meaning for both sexes. Sounds stupid, but it is true.

Men's idea of love is simply respect. Men have egos, it's all about being a better man than every other man she's had. With women, it's all about "true love", deep down emotions. If you still cant grasp what I'm saying I got u. Let me elaborate...

When a man falls in love, yes, emotions are included but that's not all. When a man is in love, he is sure that his partner is HIS and nothing will come between the two of them. He believes that his heart is in the safe zone with that partner. What happens if he gets cheated on? " That's when Santa's new address becomes hell. When a female cheats on a male, males take it as the ultimate disrespect. It's not much about the cheating act itself, it's about weakening their ego. Letting another dude take his throne. Still think its BS? Let me just give you few examples.

SEX: A man doesn't have sex mainly for pleasure. Reaching an orgasm is not as exciting as some claim it is. As men, our goal during sex is to BEAT right and last long. (It is why a great percentage of males prefer pleasuring)H? If a men cant
BREAKUPS: When you break up with a guy, most act like they don't care right? Yes, even if they are begging you to comeback, they don't do it openly. They never act like they want u back around their boys. SOUNDS LIKE AN EGO RIGHT?

COMMUNICATION: It's mainly true that most MEN treat their mate different when they are around other men. They don't act like their in love, if they are...it's just too punkish. They don't say I LOVE YOU too often around their homies. "GOTTA KEEP THE MAN FIGURE" They also wanna be the leader of the relationship most of the time. It's hard to find a balanced relationship. The guy is always the boss, daddy, that ni**a etc. Although some women claim they never address them by those titles.

FEMALES on the other hand, LOVE. Many take cheating men back, many stick through even when they are being mistreated. Many still have faith in the relationship, even when it's not going anywhere. Most females love with their heart, not with their ego. There are many females out there who are trying to be like males or putting walls in front of their love so they don't get hurt; that doesn't mean they don't love with their heart. They're afraid of getting hurt.

I am not saying that men don't fall in love; I'm saying that their idea of love is not what females consider love. Yes, both male and females idea of love have numerous, similar characteristic but it's not the same. For the male, it's all about the EGO/RESPECT. That's why we make jokes about sexing each others chick, that's why we brag about how good we sex females and brag about having a big penis, that's why we get deeply hurt and forgive less, that's why we sex more females when someone hurt us; to show that we can get something better. IT'S ALL ABOUT BEING THE BEST AT OUR JOB. BEING THE BEST MAN FOR THE FEMALE. IF ANYTHING MAKES US FEEL LIKE WE NOT DOING IT WELL, WE FEEL DISRESPECTED. THAT'S WHY SO MANY DON'T COME BACK AFTER BREAK UPS, AFTER FEMALES CHEAT AND SO ON.

AGAIN, NOT SAYING THAT ALL MEN IDEA OF LOVE IS RESPECT... JUST SAYING MOST OPERATE LIKE THIS THAT IS WHY SO MANY HURT FEMALES, SINGLE MOMS ETC.

I WANT TO HEAR YA THOUGHTS...TELL ME IF THIS SOUNDS VALID?

Source: Google Images

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

This is the FUTURE? Smh

Why do we encourage this?
This is the reason why our generation full of thugs.
This is why our generation full of violence.
Parents please do a better job than this.
Too many young parents, too many single parents. Its only getting worst.

SMFH

Lady Gaga, Jay-Z, etc. Worship Satan...So What?!!

by @theinfosoup

In America, you are free to believe in and worship whatever you want; what's wrong with them worshiping Lucifer? Although I am against the devil, this video is right, can anything be done about it? Whether it's true or not, why does it matter? WHAT CAN YOU DO ABOUT THE ILLUMINATI AND CELEBRITIES INVOLVEMENT IN IT IF THESE ASSUMPTIONS ARE TRUE?

Edited By @Charisma_Monroe