Friday, September 3, 2010

BLACK PEOPLE: Internet dating is NOT BAD !!!



Today, Internet dating is not nonly common but a growing trend. Many individuals are looking for that special someone. Some are just looking online for that special someone. Despite the fact how popular it is in the US, blacks dislike or deny it. 
Why? 
I personally think it is due to the fact black folks are proud people. Relying on a website for a mate seems pathetic to blacks. It is considered lame because it shows that the person is incapable of getting with someone "in real life", as if the people typing on the site are robots (in my most sarcastic voice). Even for sites like Twitter, black females usually use lines like,"he tried to holla" or something similar as a  diss for males. eHarmony jokes are used by individuals drowning in their singleness numerous times,  just like Everest jokes are being thrown by individuals with no education at all. 
 The black people or minorities who have met partners online are often in denial. Some laugh when they admit that they met their partners online. Some black individuals do use it to make another identity or to get laid.

At any rate, online dating has been successful for many, that is why it keeps rising. That is why so many commercials about dating sites exist and so on. Not everyones soul mate is in their vicinity or can be reached in the real world first. My second longest relationship was with someone I met off Myspace. It works, despite that you hate it; whether you're Black, Hispanic or White. Not everyone goes hunting at bars, clubs, movies, malls etc. Some just do online hunting. 


Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

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