Written By @sucmyknowledge
On Twitter, the other day I tweeted “In A Relationship.... Sex Should Be The Last Thing On The
List To Do” and of course I offended a lot of males. Why? Well, I guess sex is number one on the list to them. In my opinion sex isn’t the number one priority in a relationship. In a relationship in my opinion the top five priority in 
a relationship:
a relationship: -TRUST should be the first priority in a relationship. If you can’t bring yourself to trust the person there is going to be conflict down the road for you. The person your with isn’t there to cause you hurt and pain but try to help you through all of the hardship in your life.
-COMMUNICATION should be second priority. Communication is key. No one knows what you’re thinking but you. Therefore you need to share with your girlfriend/boyfriend everything you want them to know instead of expecting them to just get it. You’re not a mind reader and neither is your girlfriend/boyfriend.
-LOYALTY should be the third priority. Loyalty is like a glue making people love each other, trust each other, It’s the basic.
-HONESTY should be the fourth priority. Honesty is telling the truth even if you think the other person's feelings may be hurt. Those little lies you tell are not really being honest. When you tell a lie, even a little tiny lie, you’re not expressing who you are and in fact you are giving a false impression of who you are.
-HUMOR should be the fifth priority. If you can’t make that person you’re with laugh there is NO relationship. A great sense of humor is a requirement in a relationship
If you don’t have trust, communication, loyalty, honestly, and humor. Why are in a relationship? What do sex have to do with any of the five? Nothing, I mean sex is an important thing in a relationship but if you don’t have them five things and only have sex. Your relationship may fall apart.
I asked a few of my followers on twitter “Do You Think Sex Is The Number 1 Priority In A Relationship?” (click name to follow them)
@victorious116 said: Sex is good but it shouldn't be the number one priority. To keep a long lasting relationship needs to have Trust, Love, And Patients.
@iSel_FoodStamps said: Honestly I don’t think it is. Its like an accessory to a relationship. You have to be mentally attracted to that person if you’re in a SERIOUS relationship & then the physical will automatically fall into place. The connection will be much deeper if your on the same level both ways.
@ThouShaltBeFlyy said: No not number one. I would say it would be number 3 or something because number one is friendship two is communication then 3 is probably sex cause people have needs.
@iSmackedU_Nshit Nah sex is the last thing I could care about in a relationship
But sex can sometimes either mess up or helps a relationship
I agree with all four of em and as you can see even the males some what agree with what I said… If sex is SO important to you then don’t get in a relationship but to be truly happy than don’t even worry about it cause it’s people who been married for more than 40 years and haven’t had sex in years and still have a strong and powerful relationship.
-COMMUNICATION should be second priority. Communication is key. No one knows what you’re thinking but you. Therefore you need to share with your girlfriend/boyfriend everything you want them to know instead of expecting them to just get it. You’re not a mind reader and neither is your girlfriend/boyfriend.
-LOYALTY should be the third priority. Loyalty is like a glue making people love each other, trust each other, It’s the basic.
-HONESTY should be the fourth priority. Honesty is telling the truth even if you think the other person's feelings may be hurt. Those little lies you tell are not really being honest. When you tell a lie, even a little tiny lie, you’re not expressing who you are and in fact you are giving a false impression of who you are.
-HUMOR should be the fifth priority. If you can’t make that person you’re with laugh there is NO relationship. A great sense of humor is a requirement in a relationship
If you don’t have trust, communication, loyalty, honestly, and humor. Why are in a relationship? What do sex have to do with any of the five? Nothing, I mean sex is an important thing in a relationship but if you don’t have them five things and only have sex. Your relationship may fall apart.
I asked a few of my followers on twitter “Do You Think Sex Is The Number 1 Priority In A Relationship?” (click name to follow them)
@victorious116 said: Sex is good but it shouldn't be the number one priority. To keep a long lasting relationship needs to have Trust, Love, And Patients.
@iSel_FoodStamps said: Honestly I don’t think it is. Its like an accessory to a relationship. You have to be mentally attracted to that person if you’re in a SERIOUS relationship & then the physical will automatically fall into place. The connection will be much deeper if your on the same level both ways.
@ThouShaltBeFlyy said: No not number one. I would say it would be number 3 or something because number one is friendship two is communication then 3 is probably sex cause people have needs.
@iSmackedU_Nshit Nah sex is the last thing I could care about in a relationship
But sex can sometimes either mess up or helps a relationship
I agree with all four of em and as you can see even the males some what agree with what I said… If sex is SO important to you then don’t get in a relationship but to be truly happy than don’t even worry about it cause it’s people who been married for more than 40 years and haven’t had sex in years and still have a strong and powerful relationship.
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Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless
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