Lately I've been hearing "love doesn't exist" "ni**as ain't sh*t" and so on. I can't help but hit some of you who've been hurt with the simple truth. LOVE does not have the same meaning for both sexes. Sounds stupid, but it is true.
Men's idea of love is simply respect. Men have egos, it's all about being a better man than every other man she's had. With women, it's all about "true love", deep down emotions. If you still cant grasp what I'm saying I got u. Let me elaborate...
When a man falls in love, yes, emotions are included but that's not all. When a man is in love, he is sure that his partner is HIS and nothing will come between the two of them. He believes that his heart is in the safe zone with that partner. What happens if he gets cheated on? " That's when Santa's new address becomes hell. When a female cheats on a male, males take it as the ultimate disrespect. It's not much about the cheating act itself, it's about weakening their ego. Letting another dude take his throne. Still think its BS? Let me just give you few examples.
SEX: A man doesn't have sex mainly for pleasure. Reaching an orgasm is not as exciting as some claim it is. As men, our goal during sex is to BEAT right and last long. (It is why a great percentage of males prefer pleasuring)H? If a men cant
BREAKUPS: When you break up with a guy, most act like they don't care right? Yes, even if they are begging you to comeback, they don't do it openly. They never act like they want u back around their boys. SOUNDS LIKE AN EGO RIGHT?
BREAKUPS: When you break up with a guy, most act like they don't care right? Yes, even if they are begging you to comeback, they don't do it openly. They never act like they want u back around their boys. SOUNDS LIKE AN EGO RIGHT?
COMMUNICATION: It's mainly true that most MEN treat their mate different when they are around other men. They don't act like their in love, if they are...it's just too punkish. They don't say I LOVE YOU too often around their homies. "GOTTA KEEP THE MAN FIGURE" They also wanna be the leader of the relationship most of the time. It's hard to find a balanced relationship. The guy is always the boss, daddy, that ni**a etc. Although some women claim they never address them by those titles.
FEMALES on the other hand, LOVE. Many take cheating men back, many stick through even when they are being mistreated. Many still have faith in the relationship, even when it's not going anywhere. Most females love with their heart, not with their ego. There are many females out there who are trying to be like males or putting walls in front of their love so they don't get hurt; that doesn't mean they don't love with their heart. They're afraid of getting hurt.
I am not saying that men don't fall in love; I'm saying that their idea of love is not what females consider love. Yes, both male and females idea of love have numerous, similar characteristic but it's not the same. For the male, it's all about the EGO/RESPECT. That's why we make jokes about sexing each others chick, that's why we brag about how good we sex females and brag about having a big penis, that's why we get deeply hurt and forgive less, that's why we sex more females when someone hurt us; to show that we can get something better. IT'S ALL ABOUT BEING THE BEST AT OUR JOB. BEING THE BEST MAN FOR THE FEMALE. IF ANYTHING MAKES US FEEL LIKE WE NOT DOING IT WELL, WE FEEL DISRESPECTED. THAT'S WHY SO MANY DON'T COME BACK AFTER BREAK UPS, AFTER FEMALES CHEAT AND SO ON.
AGAIN, NOT SAYING THAT ALL MEN IDEA OF LOVE IS RESPECT... JUST SAYING MOST OPERATE LIKE THIS THAT IS WHY SO MANY HURT FEMALES, SINGLE MOMS ETC.
I WANT TO HEAR YA THOUGHTS...TELL ME IF THIS SOUNDS VALID?
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Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless
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