No Means No!!!

By @iShotWakaFlocka

You're at a friend's house. He's attractive. You're attracted to him. He's cool. He thinks you're cool. You kiss him. He kisses you. He moves his hands somewhere up your shirt. You don't stop him. He moves his hands into your pants. He refuses to stop. You say no. He keeps going...

This happens every day to many people, male and female. Whether it's at his house, a friends house, party, a club, in a barn yard, in a car ... it's very common. Whether it's rape or touching gone too far, people get violated every day. The people who take it too far don't realize when they've taken it too far. The person who is being violated feels as if it's too far but isn't sure if he/she is over reacting or not.

How do you know when you're taking touching and sexual contact too far?
How do you know when someone is touching, when are they doing too much? The answer is simple. When she says "No", or pushes you away.

Why do some people not know when to stop?:
Maybe they don't care. Maybe they think you want it or you're bluffing. Maybe they are drunk. The person could be high. Has the person who raised them not taught him/her the right way? Or maybe no one was around to teach them how to treat another individual. Who knows what the reason may be. All I know is there is no excuse for this behavior. And it's wrong.

I've comforted a lot of women who has gone through this. And I watched them cry, I cried with them. It causes emotional trauma. It hurts people, physically and mentally. It's life changing. And it takes a lot for some one to trust again and try to be the same person he/she was before this ever happened to them.

To all the people that has ever done this to another person, i'd like to say ... eff yall! And to all the victims of this unfortunate event, I'd like to say I love yall and to keep your head up. It WILL get better for you as the days go by. Make sure you seek help by talking to some one.

Peace and love,
Benny

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Edited By @Charisma_Monroe