When a DESERVING man comes along, why not cater to him? Ladies, if you’re looking for new ways to please your man or maybe just want to bring something new to the table, here are a few ways to do just that.
1. Massage: Start off by rubbing his back and the back of his neck. The lower back area, right above his butt is a pleasure point. If you’re feeling extra nice, go ahead and do a full body rub down.
2. Cook: You don’t have to go to culinary school to make a simple meal. Learn to make something easy, perfect it, and then make it for him. It’s a good look.
3. Lingerie: We don’t always match our bra and panties but on occassion put on some sexy lingerie and perform a striptease. Light some candles and put your baby-maker playlist on to set the mood. Have fun with it and tease him a little.
4. Blow Job: Don’t act like you’re doing him a favor by doing this. If you choose to do this, do it in a way that you would want it to be done to you. The fact that you genuinely want to pleasure him is a turn on in itself.
5. Variety: If you’re more submissive in the relationship try being the one to initiate sex, maybe wake him up with sex. Sometimes we get caught up in what we’re used to, but just because he’s the man that does not mean you can’t teach him something new. Watch porn, download a sex position app., do what you have to do to try something new. Even trying a different room could be adventurous.
6. Communicate: Talking dirty is not for everyone. Tell him what you like though. During sex, or after sex, let him know what felt good. He’ll get to know you better, and you’ll boost his ego.
7. Get Naked: Put your insecurities aside and be confident in what you’re working with. If you’re having sex with him you should be comfortable enough in your own skin to be completely naked. Visual stimulation is a great starting point.
8. Key Pleasure Spots:
o Outside of his lower lip – suck on it lightly when kissing him.
o Front of his neck – lick under his atoms apple while sitting on him.
o Head of the penis – this area holds the highest pleasure receptors; rub your lips gently against the tip.
o The Frenulum (F spot) – this is the area where the head connects to the shaft. When performing oral sex use your tongue to give him a few fast flicks just under the head.
9. Key Pleasure Positions:
o Cowgirl Position – This position causes maximum penetration for both partners. It’s also a great chance for you to put in most of the work and let him sit back and enjoy.
o Doggy Style – This infamous position leads straight to an orgasm with the least possible effort.
o Inverted rear - In this position you will assume the reverse straddle position and will be facing the ceiling. This position makes thrusting easier for him.
(These positions are more so for his satisfaction, although hopefully you will also enjoy them.)
10. Pay Attention: At the end of the day, you should know your partner best. Do your best to read his mood and how he’s feeling. Do what you can to satisfy his fantasies while still being comfortable.
Learn what he likes and doesn’t like. Keep in mind that every relationship is different and we all have unique preferences. Who knows though? Perhaps you’ll learn a thing or two about your significant other after trying some of this out. If you’re doing it right, and he likes it, you’ll surely be able to tell.
Sources from: Cosmopolitan Magazine & AskMen.com - Google Image
EdEdited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless
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