Showing posts with label Respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Respect. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Call Me By My Name Only

By @Urnotcute / @Chinaispoison


A b**** is a female Dog, but Its original use as a vulgarism, documented to the fourteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a b*** in heat. The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertive woman, one who might make men feel threatened. When applied to a man, "b***" is a derogatory term for a subordinate and/or an exceedingly whipped guy who does/wears/thinks/says whatever his girlfriend tells him to.

Whether its "you're a bad b***" or "I love you b****" or "hey b****" it seems like more and more people respond to this title. In my opinion it is one of the most derogatory names you can call someone. I feel like if you are going to disrespect someone by calling them that, do it because they deserve that term.


Jealousy is a common trait among female dogs. They want what you have and are mad because they don't own or possess it so they envy you from afar or personally pretending to be your friend. A female dog has no remorse feelings over anything. They expect to be treated like they are better than you.


Being opinionated doesn't make you a female dog. Finding a different way to success then the normal doesn't make you a female dog. Wanting to hang around males more than females doesnt make you a female dog.


Call me By My Name ONLY.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

I am not racist but. .

By @Urnotcute

It does not matter what race, no human is than another.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

How To Know You're Settling For Less

By China Lopez(click to follow)


Do you feel that the relationship you are in has you feeling sorta happy, but not completely satisfied? Are you in a relationship right now, where sometimes you want to stay and other times you want to find someone better? Do you constantly find yourself thinking… “As soon as I meet the man/girl of my dreams, I am outta here with the quickness?” If you answered yes to any of these questions, then I would venture to say that you’ve got yourself a Mr/Mrs Right Now.

I always say “don’t settle for less or you won’t get the best.” What does that mean? Although u may have thought you found the right one once you find out you didn’t ..it’s not your obligation to stay.

Image Source: Google Images



Am I My Brother's/Sister's Keeper?




In Genesis, God asked Cain where Abel was and he replied, "I know not; am I my brother's keeper?" This came to my mind after thinking about certain situations that have came up and been discussed on Twitter. One thing I've seen a lot of people brag about is being the "main" in a relationship. People don't be fooled. "Main" implies that there are others and that you aren't the only one. Some people be thinking that they are the "main" and is really the side chick/dude. 

This is something for you to think about when reflecting on your relationship. There is a difference between being someone's "main" and "lady/man", because when someone gives you the title of being their "lady/man" and everyone knows it, then you usually don't have to worry about people on the side. The reason I titled this "Am I My Brother's/Sister's Keeper" is because I'm wondering if it is the place for the side chick/dude to tell the "main" what's been going on or vice versa? I'm not talking about in a way to break them up, but because if you were in that situation, wouldn't you want to know what's going on? Telling that person could be a way of looking out for that person. You could prevent a lot of heartache if you said something in the right way. Any thoughts?


photos: photobucket

Friday, September 3, 2010

Relatives vs Family


     Have you ever let a relative that made you change, or tweak, your personal rules to accommodate them... simply because they were related? I know I used to. But since then I've had to ask, "Relative vs Family"... Is there a difference?


     I've heard plenty of people say, "I'll do anything for my family," but never interchanged with the word relative... but why? Is one just easier to say than the other? I don't think so, I think its a much deeper meaning. The definitions for both are as follows:


Relative: a person related by bloodline or through marriage
Family: an association of people who share common beliefs or activities 


     To me, those are very different things. I don't consider every relative a member of my family anymore. I'm sure we all have people with blood relation to us that emotionally, we share ZERO ties with. You, yourself probably have a friend that knows your deepest darkest secrets, who you feel is closer to than most of your born-in Pedigree? What about in the case of the deadbeat parent who has abandoned their child. Are they still considered family simply because they are relatives? I think not. 

     Just because someone shares a bloodline, doesn't mean they won't cross you the wrong way and/or treat you any better than a stranger would. I've had people, with NO blood relation, that I call family that have looked out for me in my darkest hours when some of my relatives left me out to fend for myself; after putting me in a bad situation. I will not let the 'relative excuse' place me there ever again. Family should be earned and cherished; make sure those you do is a choice YOU make, not one you are stuck with. 

"Relatives happen by Chance, Family is by Choice"

Images from: http://www.wonderfulbag.com/

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Checking Your Partners Cell Phone

By @chicagoking

A growing problem in relationships has been significant others who take it upon themselves to look through their partners phone. Now some would argue, "If the person doesn't have anything to hide, they should have no problem with me going through their phone." This statement is only partly true. Even with that said, there is a certain level a
respect and trust required to maintain a healthy relationship. Snooping around means there
is no trust, and without trust there is NOTHING. Also, can you really be mad if you find naked pictures/suspect text messages? You found exactly what you where looking for. Think about this next time you decide to go cell phone spying: If anything in the phone was meant for you, it would have ended up in YOUR phone!

Picture Source: Google Images

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Memorial of Murdered Officers Vandalized

By @JohnnyMagma





Two officers, murdered in the line of duty, have their memorial vandalized...WHAT?!?!?


This story just pissed me off and dropped my faith in people that much more. Of course, I'm sure there could be a ton of factors that the people who did this will use to justify this action, but what kind of world do we live in where a memorial is no longer sacred? It wasn’t even a memorial made by police, but by people of the community. The cowards who did it are probably affiliated with the man who is on trial for both murders and did it out of pure spite, but it is just uncalled for. Whether you are religious or not, allow the dead to rest in peace.

Full Article Available Here: BayNews9






(Edited by Shannon - @sprinkles__)