How To Keep A Man

By @Urnotcute


Don't Suffocate Him
When a man feels like he is suffocated that makes him want to go outside to get air so to say. Air represents another woman. If you give him space, he can breath and continue to move forward with you.

Privacy is Key
Some females think its okay to check their man phone since that is who they are with. The problem is if the man feels as if he is always being watched then it may hurt in the communication department. He will start deleting his text/calls and possibly not feel as open to tell you things.

Don't Interrogate, Where Is The Trust?
Alot of females have trust issues because all we are used to is hurt. But not every man's motive is to hurt or cheat. If you accuse your man of cheating. You just broke the trust that he thought you had in him. That hurt him like it would have hurt you if he did cheat.

Appreciation
A man sometimes needs to feel wanted. It's okay to have your guard up because you are afraid of getting hurt but men need attention. If they don't get the attention, love, appreciation they could be getting from you that might cause them to roam elsewhere since it seems as if you don't care.

There are many ways to keep a man but you can't stop someone from leaving if they want to go.

Desperation -vs- Love

By @Urnotcute

Those that are desperate to be in a relationship are scared. They think they cannot make it on their own. Instead of relying on their own intelligence, they rely on their sexuality. Does anyone just date any more without having to sleep with that person? Dating to find the right partner is what it is all about. Not hooking up with every one you meet.

There are many beautiful woman that would love this man. He has chosen the 'bottom of the barrel' road that will, almost certainly, end in disaster. Why would he choose her? In answer to your question; men are taking advantage of the young women that do no have enough self respect, self esteem, or faith in themselves to provide for themselves. So long as young women have no respect for themselves; men will have no respect for women.

The big deal is that until women find a way to value themselves, in a way other than sex, women will never be equal. You have adopted a "manly" point of view. Barely legal women, with no self respect, will continue to allow men to cheat, divorce or ruin any relationship they are in. I don't think sleeping around is the right answer. It only makes us victims. I think we need to educate young women to know they are more important than they ever thought.

It is a big deal! It is about self esteem. If you have none you will never know the joy of love!Desperation cause you to be easily pushed. Women should never be dependent.Woman hold the key to life so why shouldn't you as a woman feel powerful? Its okay to not want to not want to be lonely but it's not cute being desperate. When men know you're easy they use it as an advantage. Stop forgiving unforgivable acts. Stop planning and demand plans. Stop giving your body to every dimpled smile or light eyes. Stop blowing up your significant others phone and wait to be called. Stop catering to so much to the point where you have no time for yourself and be catered to. LOVE is not life its a part of it.

I Need Space

By @Urnotcute


When you are in a relationship. In the beginning it may be heavenly. I call it the honeymoon stage. But as time surpasses, that stage wears off. Sometimes, if one of the partners wants a break in the relationship, the other may automatically assume it's over. But the truth is, all good things have to come to an end. Even if it's temporary. If he/she is saying that they want space, they are starting to lose feelings and they want to make sure that they really do want to be in the relationship instead of leading you on. I can say from a females prospective, there does come a point when we need to muster up some courage and just tell whoever we are with whether or not we want to date that person anymore. Waiting around for someone who doesn't want you could hurt even more than the break in the relationship. If it is companionship that's missed, the female is just afraid of change because she's already hurting you by saying this. Don't be overbearing because that leads to feeling overwhelmed.

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

I'm Standing Right Here

BY @Urnotcute




You ever been around someone who speaks extremely loud for no valid reason? Why are you speaking like you are yelling to save your life and want the whole world to know? Im STANDING RIGHT HERE. A conversation is not a monologue, it's about sharing and paying attention to the needs of the person you're talking to. Learn how to say what you want to say in moderation. You ever been on the phone with someone whose yelling for no valid reason? This is one of the reasons I don't like talking on the phone. People who don't know when to shut up is annoying. I say" don't get mad at me if u find me not payin attention thats a hint that u need to quiet down and relax your mouth to do something more meaningful then talk.

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless

Call Me By My Name Only

By @Urnotcute / @Chinaispoison


A b**** is a female Dog, but Its original use as a vulgarism, documented to the fourteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a b*** in heat. The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertive woman, one who might make men feel threatened. When applied to a man, "b***" is a derogatory term for a subordinate and/or an exceedingly whipped guy who does/wears/thinks/says whatever his girlfriend tells him to.

Whether its "you're a bad b***" or "I love you b****" or "hey b****" it seems like more and more people respond to this title. In my opinion it is one of the most derogatory names you can call someone. I feel like if you are going to disrespect someone by calling them that, do it because they deserve that term.


Jealousy is a common trait among female dogs. They want what you have and are mad because they don't own or possess it so they envy you from afar or personally pretending to be your friend. A female dog has no remorse feelings over anything. They expect to be treated like they are better than you.


Being opinionated doesn't make you a female dog. Finding a different way to success then the normal doesn't make you a female dog. Wanting to hang around males more than females doesnt make you a female dog.


Call me By My Name ONLY.

Dont Suffocate Me

By @Urnotcute




The right aura can add that perfect touch to any outfit but some people take it too far and it's like they are trying to suffocate those around. If you want to offend me please don't do so by using your perfume. Natural scent is just as pleasant. If I wanted my eyes to water I would just cut an onion.

How to wear perfume/cologne correctly:
Spray it to the areas of your body that produce the most body heat.
Keep the cologne/perfume away from your clothes.

When applying the cologne behind the ears, wrists, chest, and neck, spray it onto your hands and wipe it on your skin or spray directly onto the areas.

If your bottle of cologne/perfume doesn't have a spray top, put your finger over the top and turn the bottle. Then pat your finger on your chest.

Use in moderation

Making Love And Having Sex: Theres a Difference

By @Urnotcute

Making love has a high level of Caring, Understanding, Passion, Desire, and need to fully satisfy both people which may take hours before both are completed.

Sex you can have with anyone. If you have no Love between the two involved, it’s just having sex. There's no connection, just physical pleasure with no mutual emotional connection.



A young lady named Samantha said: I used to think there wasn’t a difference, but that was because I was only having sex and had no emotional connection with any of the guys I slept with. Now that I’m with my boyfriend whom I love dearly, I can see how drastic the difference is. Since I care about him so much, the sex is even better, more meaningful, and just overall amazing. Plus, the look in his eyes when we’re in the heat of the moment and then tells me he loves me makes it even better.

Why Beat Me?

by @Urnotcute


I've always heard adults say if you don't beat your children you don't love them. To me you can never get your point a cross to your child by beating them in such a harsh manner. I understand discipline but when is the line drawn? I remember when I used to get spanked. I hated my parents right away. I truly believe if I had never gotten those spankings, my parents and I would be closer. Sometimes parents don't know where to draw the line with discipline. That is why some children end up looking like this after a beating:






A child is suppose to love their parents. A child is suppose to look up to their parents. A child is suppose to feel like they can tell their parents anything. A child should not have to fear their parents.


A Mother states:
I have a 19 yr old in College, never had to beat him, always respectful. I also have a 15 yr old that I’ve never beat preparing for college, and a 10 yr old who wants to become a doctor. What works for you, works for you, but not everyone and not every child needs that type of physical discipline. My whole family believed in beatings, I didn't. They were always surprised with how my children behaved, yet they beat theirs and still had to tell them to sit down 50 times. I am strict. We have rules.

Use Beating only if its NECESSARY.

Edited By: @JohnnyMagma

Sex Isnt Enough

By @Urnotcute

For some reason people think that sex is, and will be, the solution to all Long Term Relationship problems. But the truth is that You can do every trick and every flip possible to please your lover, but after awhile sex is just that… sex. It doesn't matter what you try, it is still with that same individual and it gets boring, New is always better than old. That's why people typically cheat, not because you were bad in bed, you can be better than the best, it’s just that they want something NEW and Exciting. To have a successful marriage, sex may sustain you physically, but you need more to keep it everlasting. Sex isn't everything, even though if you can't please your husband or wife then it can cause other problems, but A friendship is what keeps a marriage glued. Sex, though nice and enjoyable, will not be “The best you ever had” all the time for one reason or another. So what next? Leave?! NO! You should be in a committed relationship for much better reasons...PERIOD.



Edited By: @JohnnyMagma

Cheating for Love? You Dont Know What Love Is

By @Urnotcute

Ladies: Stop being so naive. Why try to trap a man just to make him stay. If you do succeed and he does stay, that doesn't make him love you. If a man wants to be with you then he gonna be with you for who you are. Next, ladies stop giving a dude all of your money like you don't need it, I thought the dude is traditionally supposed to be the provider. When I was younger dudes didn't really pay attention to me, I grew up now and I'm a little easier on the eyes. The one dude that paid attention to me in school ran into me and All his friends including him told me how pretty I have become. I was so excited to talk to him because I looked for him for a long time. He called me the same day he got my number and the first thing he asked me was, "Can I have $50?" I cut him off quicker then he called my phone.


Men: Stop lying to females and leading them on. Just be straight forward with females, we cherish honesty the most. If you aren't really trying be committed let her know.Why give false hope that there is going be a future and you have other plans? Why waste time? What gets me even madder is when a dude start messing with a female that is more than likely getting talked about negatively by everyone, but after he has sex with her he joins the bandwagon. You knew what type of reputation she had before you was in bed with her. You didn't say anything about her before, why start now? Lastly, cheating. Why cheat? If you can't be faithful don't cuff, continue to bluff. Relationships just might not be for you.

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Edited by @JohnnyMagma

Domestic Abuse... from a Woman

By @Urnotcute

The sad thing is this type of thing happens all the time. The men may take the abuse until finally they snap, and when that happens he usually gets time. This reminds me of the Chris Brown and Rihanna situation, there's a chance are she was doing the exact same thing to him when he finally snapped. I am not saying him hitting Rihanna makes it right though.

Men are always told to walk away because they are typically stronger but this female doesn't look frail to me. My question is, is she locked up? If you don't want to be hit then you shouldn't hit either. Every man won't exemplify as much tolerance and restraint as he did. Men on average are much stronger then women and usually hit harder but still... Think about you actions before your emotions get the best of you.




Edited by @JohnnyMagma

Its Only A Mistake If It Happens Once

By: @UrNotCute

If you were in a situation where the person you loved cheated on you what would you do? What if it happened more than once? I think I can better understand if it only happens once because then it could be a mistake, but any more and it becomes a habit.... Something you practice. Me personally, I feel the best thing to do is let the person you hurt go in this situation. Staying together will hurt more, even if you come clean. The act of Cheating itself may be forgiven, but never forgotten. It leaves a feeling of scorn that can never be fully healed.

Anonymous Males Situation:

Me and My girlfriend of 4years got into a bad argument amongst others and I ended up seeking a good friend of mine (a female) to talk to. At first it was just a drink and next thing I know we were in bed. I regretted my mistake almost immediately. I thought we could stop and just continue to be friends afterwards, but she would try to seduce me every time we saw each other. I admit I was not strong-willed enough to resist her and confess to my girlfriend, because that is the right thing to do. She then began threatening to tell my girlfriend if I did not go to bed with her, which she did when I turned down her future advances. It hurt my girlfriend very deeply, even more so since she didn't hear it from me herself. I regretted my actions and wish to make up to my girlfriend for the biggest, stupidest mistake I've ever made and am willing to do anything to repair our relationship. 

My thoughts... It's only a mistake if it happens once.

Edited By: @JohnnyMagma

I am not racist but. .

By @Urnotcute

It does not matter what race, no human is than another.

Fellas Wash Those Balls

By @Urnotcute

Not Everyone Gives Head

By @Urnotcute


I was cammed up on tiny-chat and the administrator decided everyone was going to play Truth Or Dare. When it got to me I was asked , "Which guy do you want to give head too the most?" I replied, "None because I don't give head." All the females looked shocked in fact one even told me, "Grow Up Sweetheart It's 2010." I became friends with all the males in the room though because I was different from every female in that room. There was a time when if you gave head you was called names such as "bopper, bobble-head, smut," etc. Just because the year has changed doesn't mean standards should change especially if that's the only reason why you standards have changed. I am not looking down on those who give head but I just wanted to say for the record that Not Everyone Gives Head. My sisters' boyfriend told her, "What one girl wont dude another one will." That statement is true but at the same time that's all that side joint will be worth, her head game. Compromising your morals so your significant other can stay will not make them stay. Not everyone gives head.

Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless
Picture Source: Google Images

How To Know You're Settling For Less

By China Lopez(click to follow)

Do you feel that the relationship you are in has you feeling sorta happy, but not completely satisfied? Are you in a relationship right now, where sometimes you want to stay and other times you want to find someone better? Do you constantly find yourself thinking… “As soon as I meet the man/girl of my dreams, I am outta here with the quickness?” If you answered yes to any of these questions, then I would venture to say that you’ve got yourself a Mr/Mrs Right Now.

I always say “don’t settle for less or you won’t get the best.” What does that mean? Although u may have thought you found the right one once you find out you didn’t ..it’s not your obligation to stay.

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Are You Really In Love?

By @Urnotcute

There's a difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone. When you love someone, you care about them and you want only the best for them.When you are in love someone, you can not imagine your life without them, they make you complete.You can love many people in different ways all at the same time but you are only IN love with one person at a time.

On the other hand, Loving someone means wishing the best for them no matter what. It involves a commitment that goes beyond feelings. You can love someone so much that you let them go after others, if you feel that’s what’s best for them. Love is something like intuition, You choose to love someone. Love is really strong because the point of it is to do so in sickness and in health, good times and in bad, for better or for worse, when rich and when poor… You love because you decide it is love. When you’re angry at each other the “Love” is proven. You know you LOVE him/her if you would die for him/her. That is if it is REAL love. If you’re talking about childish love, the “love” that is all about yourself and what you want and what you FEEL is right. That may be what you are experiencing.

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Twitter Fake Alert: Chaneldanise is the only REAL one on Twitter

By @UrNotCute

This is Chanel when she wasn't pregnant. Her name in fact is NOT Ayana.



This is yet another time a pregnant person picture has gotten stolen and it disgusts me! But it just shows me, people who steal pictures do not discriminate.


Her Bio says she has been modeling since she was twelve and that she's on a modeling website. She even has a contact number! But how is this possible when it's not even her in the pictures? What happens when a big time photographer contacts you? Her following and follower ratio is 300+ to 2000+. People think that just because someone has a lot of followers that makes the person legit.


The The real girl isn't on Model Mayhem. The real girl doesn't have as many pictures as her fake. Why is that? She's legit.

She has many fakes on twitter so here is her proof video.



One fake decided it wasn't her time to get off Twitter so she changed her twit-name similar to @Chaneldanise and made it @chaneIdanise but on Twitter the "I" it looks like an "L". You can change your twitter name but you are still stuck with the face you are born with.

Newest Proof Video:






Edited By Jo Anne @MzFilterless